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applyingmybeliefs

I am originally from the UK, haved lived in Saudi Arabia, and now live in Katy, Texas. I am a Christian who Has an interest in applying my knowledge, understanding and beliefs to what I see going on in the world around me.
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Behavioral Risks to Intimacy

In previous blogs I have identified behaviors, which I called intimacy destroyers and/or intimacy busters, which spouses engage in within the marriage relationship.  In this essay I am going to cover conduct that we habitually demonstrate in our external relationships that may also pose a risk to the intimacy in a marriage.  To do this … Continue reading

Book Review – Love Thy Body

Pearcey Nancy R.  (2018)  Love Thy Body.  Grand Rapids, MI.  Baker Books.   ISBN 978-0801075728 This book is subtitled “Answering Hard Questions about Life and Sexuality.” Nancy Pearcey is a professor of Apologetics for HBU, a Scholar-in-Residence, and director of the Center for Christian Worldview.  For more information go to: http://www.HBU.edu/ChristianThought and NancyPearcey.com This is worth … Continue reading

Headship, Submission and Intimacy

In this blog, we are going to link the biblical instructions for wives to submit to their husbands, and for husbands to provide headship to their wives with that seemingly elusive thing we call intimacy. This verse seems to be controversial: Eph 5:22 – Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. In … Continue reading

Peacebreaker, Peacekeeper or Peacemaker?

I have recently been reflecting on the idea of anxiety being the absence of peace, and come now to looking at how some anxiety can be created in a marriage.  What if there was something we could do to reduce the chance that anxiety can be initiated, or made less likely to happen, or be … Continue reading

Intimacy and Anxiety in Marriage

When considering the many things that negatively affect intimacy in a marriage, it can be said that anxiety might be one of the top issues.  In this blog we are going to take a look at this and attempt to get some understanding of what is at work and what to do about it. The … Continue reading

Science – Watch Out!

I regularly get pointed at scientific studies that I am instinctively cautious about.  Maybe I am just cynical!  Here are some examples – with my comments: Psychological/Sociological Studies Many people know I do counseling, and so they direct my attention to various studies.  Sex addiction studies that show men are mostly to blame for sexual … Continue reading

Rehab Review – Serenity Light Recovery

Author’s note – I was one of the two Merimnao representatives that made the visit discussed below. Report on Visit to Serenity Light Recovery 5-5-2018 – Seen below: Merimnao representatives made a visit to Serenity Light Recovery, a drug and alcohol rehabilitation center near Angleton, Texas on May 3rd, 2018.  These are our general findings. … Continue reading

Book Review – Breast Cancer Husband

Silver, Marc.  Breast Cancer Husband.  New York, NY.  Rodale Books, 2004.   ISBN 978-1579548339 This book is subtitled “How to Help Your Wife (and Yourself) Through Diagnosis, Treatment and Beyond.” Marc Silver is an editor at US News and World Report.  (And it shows in how well this is written!) No woman should face breast cancer … Continue reading

Digital Addiction

In my counseling work I am increasingly running into what seems to be called “Digital Addiction.”  This is defined by the American Society for Addiction Medicine (ASAM) and the American Psychiatric Association (APA) as: A primary, chronic disease of brain reward, motivation, memory, and related circuitry. Dysfunction in these circuits leads to characteristic biological, psychological, … Continue reading

Ten Questions

When I’m counseling I often ask questions – DUH!  Sometimes I ask some specific questions designed not for the answer, but to stimulate a person into introspection.  These are the two scriptures that I am leaning on when I do this: Lam 3:40 – Let us test and examine our ways, and return to the … Continue reading

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